Staying in the wrong relationship while you are waiting for the right one to come along- QUIT
Praying that the wrong relationship will turn into the right relationship- QUIT
Doing everything needed thinking that he/she will change into the perfect person for you- QUIT
You tell your friends that he’s the one but he tells his friends that you’re just a friend- QUIT
Making excuses for his/her behavior for the past two years- QUIT
Been dating for the past ten years and he/she still isn’t ready for marriage- QUIT
Why do we constantly try to manipulate our situations? We need to realize instead that God has someone better and we should just move on, prepare ourselves and show God that we are ready for the person He has on the operation table.
That guy hasn’t even called you his girlfriend or his future wife, yet you iron his clothes, do his full load laundry, cook all his meals, have your closet filled with ‘his side’ of clothes, have your fridge stocked with things he likes, and give him the nooki three times a day… All this and you haven’t even met his family, friends or his pet. Now you got his mail forwarding to your address because he’s over there more times than he cares to be at his own crib. When will you realize that you are making it too easy for him?
Whenever he talks about his future, your name is not mentioned. The “we/us” you have created in your mind does not exist in reality for him. He may have whispered to you all the words and poetry in a book but what he tells you does not matter as much as what he tells others about you. The sex may sustain him but it will not keep him. You are only his place holder for the real trophy that comes along. Please do remember that you should not apply marriage level commitment where a marriage or intent of marriage does not exist (Yes please repeat it until you get it). Don’t settle to be with a person who’s taking advantage of you even if you think you deserve it. Only treat a man like a king when he shows you that you are his queen.
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